tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post3137714037033176160..comments2024-02-26T07:02:01.185-05:00Comments on Freedom from the Forbidden: Child Sexual Abuse - Part I: how my Quran teacher sexually abused girlsqrratugaihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16986383116815099640noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-520543643446760852014-11-03T15:04:22.505-05:002014-11-03T15:04:22.505-05:00As far as I can tell she mentioned Quran teacher b...As far as I can tell she mentioned Quran teacher because these bearded bastards(pm me and I will tell you why I call them bastards) should be the LAST ones such filthy acts should be expected from... these are the hypocrites that need to be skinned alive and then made to sit on a stick of lighted dynamite!Shakeel Ahmad Khanhttp://www.pakhtun.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-49223619046735720632014-11-03T15:01:45.370-05:002014-11-03T15:01:45.370-05:00As far as I remember the only and largest Randai K...As far as I remember the only and largest Randai Khana is Hira Mandi or Diamond Market and that is not located in Swat or KPK for that matter? Can anyone remind us where this great establishment is located?Shakeel Ahmad Khanhttp://www.pakhtun.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-85216148015480135082013-10-18T10:42:37.909-04:002013-10-18T10:42:37.909-04:00Hang all the bastards!!Hang all the bastards!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-27669007179171316692013-03-11T02:30:09.431-04:002013-03-11T02:30:09.431-04:00i think thats the most vulnerable age for kids to ...i think thats the most vulnerable age for kids to be victim,so special consideration should be taken and should be discussed,now a days shahzad roy advertisment of promoting education is going on on GEO TV,one person while he ask him about co education ,he replies that kids being small no matter whether they study in co is not a problem.but what i think that this paki society is such sick that Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-2128240247068767892013-02-05T19:42:37.437-05:002013-02-05T19:42:37.437-05:00Hi, Anonymous,
Just wanted to let you know that P...Hi, Anonymous,<br /><br />Just wanted to let you know that Part II has just been posted on the blog. Here's the link: <a href="http://orbala.blogspot.com/2013/02/when-mullahs-molest-children-why-silence.html" rel="nofollow">When Mullahs Molest Children: Why the Silence?</a><br /><br />Thanks for your patience!qrratugaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16986383116815099640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-40425819695937177232013-02-03T01:18:24.817-05:002013-02-03T01:18:24.817-05:00Thanks for your comment, Anonymous :)
I'm not...Thanks for your comment, Anonymous :)<br /><br />I'm not sure what the right platform is, but we should do whatever we can to make sure that other kids don't go through it. I do believe in the power of sharing stories on the Internet, like through blogging. You should at least write an article about your experience (using a pen name, maybe?) and have your story published on Huff Post or qrratugaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16986383116815099640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-41896299046453962952013-02-03T01:14:52.097-05:002013-02-03T01:14:52.097-05:00Agreed. Completely agreed. I, too, believe it happ...Agreed. Completely agreed. I, too, believe it happens to almost 100% children!qrratugaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16986383116815099640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-56097214960717178872013-02-03T01:14:00.128-05:002013-02-03T01:14:00.128-05:00LOL. Because Punjabis don't do this? Think aga...LOL. Because Punjabis don't do this? Think again! Sexual abuse has no religion or race or nationality. Punjabis do it just as much as non-Punjabis, including Pukhtuns, do it.<br /><br />Open your eyes more widely and you'll see it. Listen to the kids around you, and you'll see it.qrratugaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16986383116815099640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-76679436873698943842013-02-03T01:12:35.704-05:002013-02-03T01:12:35.704-05:00Thanks for your comment, Anonymous! :)
I agree th...Thanks for your comment, Anonymous! :)<br /><br />I agree that it can harm someone's life, but some people's lives deserve to be harmed - like the mullahs who sexually abuse children daily and we don't do anything about it even after we know it, but we instead question the child!qrratugaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16986383116815099640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-45839641195257285732013-02-03T01:11:19.182-05:002013-02-03T01:11:19.182-05:00Oh my God ... So sorry, Anonymous, just realized I...Oh my God ... So sorry, Anonymous, just realized I haven't replied to this comment.<br /><br />Thank you for sharing your story, too. I'm so sorry it happened to you. These mullahs need to be recognized for these ungodly acts. They do terrible stuff to our kids because we ALLOW them to do it. We need to stop allowing them!qrratugaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16986383116815099640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-64601611446050555102012-11-12T13:56:33.842-05:002012-11-12T13:56:33.842-05:00very very sad..but you are right absolutely right....very very sad..but you are right absolutely right..These beasts must be exposed..must have ppl courage to say and in this way society course can be changed in a better way...But we must take care that before blaming somebody with such charges we must have credible evidence because it can harm damage somebody life very seriously..so we must be balances in our approach.<br />take care all.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-68676416119054780912012-11-06T07:26:17.931-05:002012-11-06T07:26:17.931-05:00Wowww love you and your writings girl. Reminds me ...Wowww love you and your writings girl. Reminds me me of our Islamyat teacher in middle school. He was tall with big black beared and use to wear black shirwani and Peacock head head gear (Qula with shamla).<br />Being good looking puppoo boy i was his favorit student. In winters he use to keep peanuts in his shirwani pocket. He use to tell me to take peanuts from the pocket and enjoy them. First Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-80986955467373989872012-09-23T14:35:15.262-04:002012-09-23T14:35:15.262-04:00You just replied to the last part of it :) Yeah I ...You just replied to the last part of it :) Yeah I still believe that you have portrayed yourself Hindi movie Hero (not heroine please) and not telling anyone about doesn't disqualify you but the way you came out clean and neat and the way you have soooooooooooo much feelings you had for your class mates and then beating his brother :DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-18758342854168322702012-09-23T13:45:17.462-04:002012-09-23T13:45:17.462-04:00Thank you very much for your input, *Anonymous* ;)...Thank you very much for your input, *Anonymous* ;)<br /><br />Wait - I've really portrayed myself as a Hindi movie heroine in this? Wow! That's interesting, because I'd think anyone reading this (and I myself all these years of my life) would think that I was such a coward for not having spoken up or not having told someone or fought with that beastly Qur'an teacher. <br /><br />qrratugaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16986383116815099640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-89102894398085592992012-09-22T09:13:08.045-04:002012-09-22T09:13:08.045-04:00why you just said QURAN teacher?? is that another ...why you just said QURAN teacher?? is that another cheap way of showing how much liberal you are? I know in these PUBLIC schools they have islamiyat teacher who is not a qualified cleric but teaches qauida or recites few surah to kids and take other classes (science, urdu ) too. why you did you so much emphasized on the word QURAN. i can fell the hatred and mocking feelings in that. P.S you have Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-28539285463326251012012-08-30T00:41:13.998-04:002012-08-30T00:41:13.998-04:00Very soon, inshaAllah. I have written it, but it n...Very soon, inshaAllah. I have written it, but it needs some polishing and re-reading and all. Say within a week's time :)qrratugaihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16986383116815099640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-66690628361663612012012-08-29T06:36:59.525-04:002012-08-29T06:36:59.525-04:00When is part - II coming Orbala?When is part - II coming Orbala?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-67826477205953813622012-08-14T20:18:37.940-04:002012-08-14T20:18:37.940-04:00saddened its just disgusting....you were innocent ...saddened its just disgusting....you were innocent shouldnt blame yourself for not telling on him, it must have been hard on you but wasnt your fault that you couldnt stop that sick man. <br /> The society should be aware and educated about such abuse and parents should bond with children in a way that a child can straight away without any fear and hesitation can tell them about any such incidanceAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00539590398784911264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-45000716514068988182012-08-10T14:25:59.257-04:002012-08-10T14:25:59.257-04:00I've really no words to condemn this wild and ...I've really no words to condemn this wild and inhuman incident...shame on such culprits.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03274766845252044358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-63108095102567647822012-08-10T14:22:08.908-04:002012-08-10T14:22:08.908-04:00I've really no words to condemn this wild and ...I've really no words to condemn this wild and inhuman incident...shame on such culprits.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03274766845252044358noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-84315193581599849112012-08-08T14:55:26.843-04:002012-08-08T14:55:26.843-04:00these things happen a lot in swat. swat is a dam k...these things happen a lot in swat. swat is a dam khana, they have no ghairat at all even the religious clerics of them. taliban beating a woman was another example. this is the real face of pathans. proud to be punjabi :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-9889822357784399792012-08-07T18:32:36.385-04:002012-08-07T18:32:36.385-04:00Child abuse in pakistan is almost 100 percent. Es...Child abuse in pakistan is almost 100 percent. Especially among boys. All boys r sexually molested and sodomized by older bhai Jans. <br />It's very common for girls too. It's a shame that when we kids, we were not encouraged to speak up and complain.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-60693200750650849412012-08-07T05:54:27.092-04:002012-08-07T05:54:27.092-04:00really appreciat your effort, these issues should ...really appreciat your effort, these issues should be brought up. I´m a victim of these issues too. and my life must be far more different if I didn´t have these experiences. have many things to share. is it the right platform. what you suggest?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-49159089882290599362012-08-07T05:14:48.822-04:002012-08-07T05:14:48.822-04:00I, too, am/was a victim when I was 10 or less. I b...I, too, am/was a victim when I was 10 or less. I blamed myself for it and never spoke about it with anyone from my family cuz I thought they'd blame me. I still don't have the confidence to talk about it openly.<br /><br />What I want to learn now is how to make illiterate village people understand the need of discussing this issue openly,to help them communicate with their kids on this Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2799144498932126167.post-57193188214549167302012-08-07T03:53:40.060-04:002012-08-07T03:53:40.060-04:00Horrible, truly terrible :( I also have a close fr...Horrible, truly terrible :( I also have a close friend who was abused by her 'Qari sahib' who used to come to her house to teach her and her siblings, but she felt too ashamed to tell anyone for ages - until she finally told her mother as her younger sister was now old enough to take lessons with the teacher and she didn't want her to go through the same thing. The fellow promptly gotRehannoreply@blogger.com